It is a terribly sad thing when a relationship comes to an end. There are many memories to come to terms with and hopes for the future to adjust. However, emotional issues aside, there are also very practical matters that will need to be addressed. Are there assets to be divided up when the couple separate? Are children involved? At these times, when emotional tension can be high, it is often necessary to get a level-headed, objective professional to guide you through the steps, which need to be considered. If, for example, you live in Surrey, consider the family mediation Surrey has to offer.
One of the first steps it may be worth considering is whether counselling is an option before the practical steps are taken towards a permanent separation. If, however, the relationship has irretrievably broken down, it is worth seeking out legal advice. There are many practical issues to take into account.
If you are thinking about divorcing your spouse, even if the relationship is still relatively amicable, it is still important that each party takes legal advice. There may be issues that you do not understand or were unaware of and rights to which you didn’t realise you were entitled. What about pension allocation, division of assets and childcare arrangements and financial support? There are also the mechanics of the divorce itself to finalise.
The nature of the relationship that has broken down is important. Although there are suggestions for changes in the law, at present, you would have almost no legal entitlements against someone you live with, without being married. However, if either party in a ‘common law’ marriage has made financial contributions towards property, or if a child is involved, then things are a little more complicated. In these circumstances it is important to get professional help. So, if you are in Surrey, the family mediation Surrey offers may be able to offer some solutions and practical advice to make your split as painless as possible.